Why Traditional Work-Life Balance Is Failing You (And What to Do Instead)

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Hey Beautiful Mama! 👋

Last week, I found myself laughing on a random Wednesday afternoon as Stephen asked our podcast guests the most ridiculous question:

"How many owls could you see in one day before worrying something was wrong?"

Our guests (and dear friends) Zach and Ashley just stared at us for a second before erupting in laughter.

This wasn't some profound business strategy session. It was just pure, silly fun with friends in the middle of what most people would consider a "workday."

And that's exactly what I want to talk about today.

You see, Zach and Ashley shared something interesting during our podcast interview.

They call it "Wifey Wednesdays" - their unconventional approach to family time that completely flips the script on the weekend schedule most of us live by.

Instead of cramming all their family connection into busy, crowded weekends when everyone else is out and about, they take Wednesdays off.

Completely off.

No work emails. No calls. No business tasks.

Just pure, uninterrupted family time smack in the middle of the week.

When they first mentioned this, I felt that little spark of possibility ignite inside me.

You know that feeling?

When you hear something and think, "Wait...we could actually DO that?" 💡

It was such a powerful reminder that as entrepreneurs, we have the freedom to design our lives in ways that most people never even consider.

We don't have to follow the traditional Monday-Friday work schedule if it doesn't serve our families or our well-being.

The Problem with Traditional
"Work-Life Balance"

Let's be honest - traditional work-life balance often doesn't feel very balanced at all, does it?

For me, it used to look like this:

Monday through Friday: Rush, hustle, appointments, deadlines, client calls, team meetings.

Saturday: Try to catch up on housework, errands, and all the life stuff that got pushed aside.

Sunday: Church, brief rest, then mental preparation (and often actual work prep) for Monday.

It was less like balance and more like constantly shifting weights from one side to another, always feeling like something was about to topple over.

And I know I'm not alone.

I hear this from so many mamas in our community…

This sense that we're always playing catch-up, always one step behind where we want to be.

That's why I'm becoming a big believer in work-life harmony instead of balance.

Balance implies equal weight on both sides.

Which is nearly impossible to achieve day to day.

Harmony means everything works together in a flow that feels right for YOUR unique family.

What "Wifey Wednesdays" Taught Me About Creating Harmony

When I heard about Zach and Ashley's Wednesday family days, I immediately wanted to know more.

Why Wednesday?

How did they make it work?

What did it actually look like in practice?

Here's what they shared:

Midweek breaks create natural breathing room

Instead of pushing through five consecutive days of work (which can feel like running a marathon in business heels 👠), a midweek break creates two shorter "sprints."

They work Monday-Tuesday, take Wednesday for family, then work Thursday-Friday.

Wednesday adventures are WAY less crowded

When they take their four-year-old to the zoo or beach or Legoland on a Wednesday, they're not fighting the weekend crowds.

Zach described Legoland on a Wednesday as "a barren wasteland… it's amazing!" Less time in lines means more actual fun time with your littles.

Weekends become more restful

With their big family day already enjoyed midweek, their weekends don't feel as pressured to "make the most" of every minute.

Sunday can truly be a day of rest rather than the last gasping chance for family time before the work week begins again.

Family days stay purer

This concept resonated with me. They mentioned that taking Wednesday off means their family day doesn't compete with all the events, birthday parties, and obligations that tend to fill weekends.

It's truly THEIR day, not just leftover scraps of time between commitments.

As I listened to them share this, I couldn't help but think about how often our weekends get hijacked by errands, obligations, and running from one thing to the next.

By Sunday night, I sometimes feel like we need a weekend from our weekend!

Small Steps Toward Work-Life Harmony

Now, I know what you might be thinking:

"That sounds amazing, Chelsey, but there's no way I could take a whole Wednesday off."

I get it.

Depending on your business model, your team size, or your current growth phase, a full day off midweek might feel impossible right now.

But here's the beautiful thing about designing your own schedule…

You don't have to go all-in immediately.

You can start with baby steps:

If you can't take a full day:

Block off Wednesday afternoon (even just 2-3 hours) for family time

Create a "no meetings Wednesday" rule to give yourself breathing room

Switch your usual Saturday morning family breakfast to Wednesday morning instead

If you can't do every week:

Try it once a month to start

Experiment with a half-day every other week

Pick one Wednesday each month for a special family outing

The point isn't to perfectly replicate someone else's system.

It's to intentionally design a rhythm that honors both your work and your family in a way that feels sustainable for YOU.

Our 3-Hour Secret Weapon

While we haven't fully implemented Wifey Wednesdays (yet!), another practice Zach and Ashley shared has been very helpful for us…

Their three-hour Friday coffee dates.

Every Friday afternoon, they spend three full hours together planning both business and family life.

They discuss deeper business topics that require collaborative thinking, and they also map out family logistics, kid stuff, and household needs.

When I heard them say "three hours," I was quite surprised! I remember thinking, "Three HOURS? We recommended 30 minutes on our podcast, and they 10x'd it!"

But the more they explained, the more it made sense.

The extended time gives them space to really work through any disagreements without rushing, which prevents those tense, pointed conversations that can happen when you're trying to solve problems too quickly.

We're trying this approach for the first time this week, and I'm so excited to see how it improves our communication.

I'll let you know how it goes!

Your Custom Schedule Design Guide

Ready to create more harmony in your own schedule? Here's a simple process to get started:

1. Audit Your Current Weekly Flow

Take a look at your calendar for the past few weeks.

Where do you feel most rushed?

When do you feel most present with your family?

When do you do your best work? Start noticing the natural patterns.

2. Identify Your Non-Negotiables

What absolutely must happen each week for your business to thrive?

For your family to feel connected? For you to feel human?

Write these down… they're your anchors.

3. Design Your Ideal Week

If you could arrange your week any way you wanted, what would it look like?

Dream big here.

Where would you place your focused work time?

Your family time?

Your personal recharge time?

4. Start With ONE Change

Don't try to overhaul everything at once.

Pick the single change that would make the biggest positive impact, and start there.

Maybe it's blocking off Wednesday afternoons.

Maybe it's implementing a Friday planning date.

Just pick one thing.

5. Communicate the Change

Make sure everyone affected understands what you're doing and why.

This includes your family, your team, and your clients.

Clear communication prevents confusion and builds support.

6. Protect It Fiercely

Treat this time as sacred.

It's so easy to let client emergencies or "just this once" exceptions erode your boundaries.

Remember what Zach said:

"I wouldn't cancel on another role in our business, so I'm not going to cancel on Ashley."

I truly believe that one of the greatest gifts of entrepreneurship is the freedom to design a life that works for YOUR unique family.

You don't have to accept the standard "work all week, cram life into weekends" model if it's not serving you.

With love and gratitude,

Chelsey 💕

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